Female Signs of Attraction – When to Make Your Move and When to Move on

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at www.geturgirl.com

Have you ever watched the face of a pretty young woman when a guy is trying to talk to her and she clearly wants nothing more than for him to just move on? Well, if you have, then you know that it is painfully obvious that she wants nothing to do with him and he just does NOT get it. If you don’t want to be that guy, then you better know how to read female signs of attraction.
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Otherwise, you probably will end up in a situation where you ARE that guy.

Most women are not blunt enough to just tell a guy to shove off. Instead, they will placate him and act like they are kind of okay with him being there. That is of course, until they get the first chance to get outta there and when they can, they are off in a flash.

Just so that does not happen to you, here are some signs of female attraction to pay attention to:

1. If she physically makes contact with you when you are talking to her, that is usually a good sign.

Let’s say that you are having a good conversation with a woman and she puts her hand on your shoulder when she responds. That is usually a good indicator of interest, and you need to build on that. However, if she seems to be talking to you, but looking anywhere that she can that is not directed at you, then she probably is waiting for her cue to walk away from you. Try to hang on to her for too long, and you are just going to make it worse for yourself.

2. If she OPENS up her body to you that is also a good sign for you.

Let’s say that while you are talking to her, she kind of has her body sideways. If she turns so that she is directly in front of you and kind of “opens” up, then she is showing another mild indicator of interest. I put the mild in on there, because this is usually not one of those signs that tells you that you have won her over. Just that she is interested in you right there and right then. If she closes off her body to you, that is a not so subtle sign that she is wanting you to leave.

3. If she uses her eyes to flirt with you, then you are doing okay.


Women have a way of using their eyes to flirt with a guy, and most often, this is reserved for a guy that they really are starting to feel attracted to. The one thing to watch out for with this is, if she is a really shy kind of girl, then this may be just what she does with all guys to kind of overcome her shyness. But, this is usually yet another indication that you should be working to build up her attraction for you. If she rolls her eyes and it is NOT in a playful way, then what she is really saying is, please go away.

 
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  • Aims says
    Just seems like common sense to me!
  • Raven says
    Don't try too hard - and if she smiles, that is a good sign too!
  • Bonita says
    I smile at most people, generally out of politeness, although these 'signs' seem fairly generic and common sense I find the one thing which may make me sound like a wee hippy is to trust the 'vibe' (or instinctive first 'feeling') that people of either sex give off, it speaks so much louder than interpreting physical signs, its a bit 6 of one half a dozen of the other when you see articles with experts deciding whether celebrities are 'really in love' based on a static image which by any other angle could be a different story, what Im waffling on is really that vibes and feelings (designed to help us choose to 'fight or flight') could be more reliable than a girl/guy smiling or paying you attention out of politeness or not attraction but just general attentiveness?
  • Jono says
    Sexual Panther I hear is great for attracting the ladies.
  • Kim says
    Wow - "most women" are too meek and mild to tell a man they're not attracted to to naff off? Really? Wow - you must be knowing the wrong women! lol Most women I know find the task quite easy! So if a woman walks away from you, don't follow. If she doesn't want to dance, don't ask twice. If she makes excuses to go talk to friends or she talks on her cellphone instead of talking to you, give up. Mission lost. Abort.
  • Clayton says
    Have to agree..Make slight contact(small of the back) and if its returned.. Thats pretty much a green light.. For intrest to continue, not more touching, haha!
  • barnes10 says
    I will admit I'm useless at reading the signs Women are interested in me. They pretty much have to tell me straight up whats going on otherwise I've got no idea.

    100's no make that 1000's of women have missed out on the best 2 minutes of there lifes!!!HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHHEHEHEHE
  • Brian says
    Vibes are nothing more than unconsciously recognising body language. Women are subtle..men miss the signs more often, than not. Where we feel we get mixed signals, is we see some body language, but take it out of context...hence often wrong.

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