There are essentially two basic ways that you can consciously work on your inner game in order to improve your relationships with both your self and with the kind of women that you wish attract.

The first way, which is what a lot of guys do, is essentially cut yourself off from the real world or at least where women are concerned and begin a “serious” exploration and study of your self.

While this way can and for a lot of guys ultimately does lead to them improving their relationship with themselves, unfortunately when it comes to attracting or succeeding with women it isn’t of much use, which is why the second way is a far more effective way of working on your inner game to improve both your self and your success with women.

 Perhaps, you are wondering what this second and far more powerful way of working on your inner game is, so let me tell you.

Simply stated you work on your inner game in the real world rather than spending the majority of your time in self study.

Essentially you get a basic understanding of the things that you know you must do in order to attract women.

Then you begin doing those things and noticing how it feels when you do them both the good and the bad.

Of course, since you are a work in progress there are going to be times when for whatever reason you simply aren’t doing what you know is necessary in order to attract women.

Guess what?

When you find yourself not doing what you know you must in order to attract women you are going to notice what that feels like as well.

The reason being is ultimately your goal is to find yourself at a place in life where you are moving towards what it is that you truly want and more importantly having the ability to weather through the storms and rough times that occur in life especially when it comes to dealing with those that you are intimately and romantically involved with.

Once you begin now to truly connect with your feelings and be able to still maintain a certain sense of awareness even when life isn’t going the way that you like.

You will begin to discover sooner than you can imagine just how easy it is to naturally attract women when you are able to maintain your self in the here and now rather than on what you think it is that she wants.