Women have perplexed men just like you for ages. Men have been searching for what women want in a man for a long time, and most guys still have not come up with any good answers. If you assume that what a woman wants is a rich guy with huge muscles and an expensive sports car, then you probably want to explore a little deeper what truly moves a woman and makes her feel attraction for a man.

You have been taught for a long time all of these broad assumptions about what woman want, and unfortunately, most of it has been dead wrong. See, we all grow up watching fairy tale stories about romance and we are taught that we have to kind of be a woman’s personal prince charming in order to really make her want you.

Well then, what would explain why it seems like guys that act like total jerks seem to have no problems attracting women?

I mean, they are far from the prince charming type, and yet it seems that women are drawn to them. Now, that might get you thinking that in order to attract a woman, you have to become that jerk and that’s not really the case.

Did you realize that most of the elements of attraction do not require that you even speak a word with a woman?

Seriously.

Some men seem to be able to ‘figure’ this out all on their own, and they end up being the ones that have no problems at all picking out which woman that they want to take out on a date.

Yes, they really do ‘pick out’ which woman they want, not the other way around.

Here are some powerful ways to turn on a woman without saying a word that will help you become the kind of guy that can choose which woman you want to date:

1. Your body language has to be congruent with the image that you want to project to her.

If you want to have a woman see you as being the natural alpha male, then your body language has to match. Words can only say so much, and what women really look for is the way that you move your body. If you are too tense and rigid looking, then she will probably assume that you are no fun and you are a little too uptight for her tastes. And if you droop your shoulders and kind of keep your eyes down to the floor, then she is probably going to assume that you are a pushover with little to no self esteem.

2. You have to be able to keep a natural smile on your face.

Women don’t want to be approached by some tough guy that is just going to stand there looking tough. By the same token, though, they also don’t want to be approached by some wimp that is going to spend the entire night asking her if she is okay or if she needs anything. You want to keep a natural smile on your face when you approach a woman, one that is almost kind of playful, so that you signal that not only are you comfortable, but you also have a fun side to you.

3. Do not twitch or act all fidgety with a woman.

It’s kind of funny, but this is really a big turnoff to most women. If you act all fidgety or your body twitches a lot, you are sending her all of the wrong signals. You are probably coming across as being either awkward or nervous, or, you might even be sending her the message that she cannot trust you. And if these are the kinds of messages that you are sending a woman, then you are not going to end up getting anywhere at all with her. You want to appear relaxed and calm, like you would if there was no “pressure” at all.

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