When it’s cold outside and pouring with rain you could reach for the remote and spend the whole day in front of the TV watching sport; or you could take the opportunity to spice up your sex life and treat your partner to one of these sexy ideas for winter days.

Sex in the Shower
A hot shower feels amazing on a cold day. Add your partner into the mix and it can get even steamier. The shower is a natural sex toy; combining heat, pressure, moisture and friction. So there are plenty of sexy experiences to try out and enjoy. If you have a detachable showerhead, try using the flow of water to give your partner an all over body massage or stimulate her erogenous zones with the jets of water. Cover each other in liquid soap and give sensual massages, perform mind-blowing oral sex or adopt a rear-entry position for intercourse. The shower really can provide hours of fun… or at least until the hot water runs out!

A Massage in Front of the Fire
People often fantasize about a sexual encounter in which they simply lie back and have all their desires met. Instead of reciprocating, their only job is to drift off into a world of erotic pleasure. So why not set the mood with soft music and candlelight, draw the curtains and lay your partner down in front of the fire, ask her to close her eyes before giving her an X-rated massage! She’s likely to melt in your arms and reciprocate your affection. Just remember to heat the massage oil to skin temperature by placing the bottle in a bowl of warm water before use.

Role-play
Why not take the opportunity to turn a fantasy into a reality and experiment with role-play? Fantasies with one submissive and one dominant partner tend to be popular, so take it in turns to be the teacher and pupil, doctor and patient or slave and master… or act out any other scenario that takes your fancy. Remember to agree on the ground rules with your partner before you let your imaginations run wild. And if you want your partner to really look the part, consider investing in a costume for her.

Get Reflective
To kill the boredom on a rainy day, why not get reflective? If you have a large mirror in your home, you can use it to add excitement to your sex life. Why not position yourselves so you can see your penis penetrating your partner during intercourse. Or perform cunnilingus on you partner while she watches from an angle she’s never seen before, or have her perform fellatio on you for your viewing pleasure. Whatever you choose to do, it’s likely to be highly arousing!

There you have it, four sexy ideas to heat things up and keep the boredom away on cold winter days – enjoy!