Planning a bit of bedroom time this Valentines? Whether you buy into the day or not, it’s a nice reminder to dedicate a bit of time to your partner. And trying something new/more effort-filled than your standard between the sheets is a great way to remind her that you find her just as sexy as ever.

Rub a dub dub

Women feel sexy in the bath. It’s warm, it smells good, feels relaxing, and with just the right bubble placement we can convince ourselves that we look all Cleopatra-esque and sultry. Consequently, this Valentines Day, she’ll love it if you surprise her by running her one.  Fill the tub with warm water and either a lavish amount of bubbles or scented oils and rose petals. Then put on the mood music and surround the bath with tea light candles. And feel free to join us, we like that too. Bathing with you makes us feel increased intimacy, which in turn makes us feel a bit sexy, so it’s great foreplay. If she’s a fan of water action, you might also like to surprise her with a gift from the revolutionary Sex in the Shower range too.  

Sensual Massage

Much like the bath, a massage from you feels relaxing, smells good and makes us feel sexy. Treating us to a full body, naked massage puts us in a sensual mood (which eventually puts us in a sexual mood) and reminds us that you enjoy our bodies (we forget). Use plenty of massage oil and slowly work your way with varying pressure up her legs, butt and back. Gently turn her over and apply the same treatment, mixing it up with the occasional gentle kiss.

Bedroom Buffet

Two of the finest things in life are food and sex. So it makes sense to combine them.  Take foods like strawberries, raspberries, melon, chocolate and honey and feed them to your partner or place them on her body and eat them from her. Drizzle honey or melted chocolate onto her naked body and then slowly and sensually lick them off again.

All Tied Up

Ohhh, how we love it when you take a little control! Valentine’s Day is the perfect time for sexual experimentation. So if your partner is willing; take a silk scarf and tie her hands to the bedpost. She’ll want to feel your hormones take over, so let some of your bodyweight bare down on her and purposefully run your fingers through her hair before having your way with her.

Ruffle Feathers

If you prefer the softer approach; and want your partner to beg you to touch her or go down on her then try using a feather teaser. Use it to tease her entire body, finishing up on her vagina. The soft, tickling sensations from the feathers will heighten her senses and drive her crazy. Before long she’ll be begging you to touch her, lick her or take her then and there.

This Valentines Day why not use these ideas as inspiration? Do something sexually unique to surprise your partner, and make it a February 14th that she’ll never forget.