You’re not alone if, like many men, you think that Valentine’s Day is just a marketing gimmick. And while there may be some truth in that, I can guarantee that most women still want to celebrate it and be pampered by the man they love. Why? Because it a nice to feel wanted and loved – nothing more, nothing less. Yes, you can make her feel that way on any day of the year, but she will be hoping that you put in the effort on the one special day of the year that is set aside for lovers to show their feelings for one another.

Clichéd gifts like chocolate and flowers will always be well received but if you want to raise your game, read on for some sexy gift ideas that will satisfy you just as much as they’ll satisfy her.

A Little Goes a Long Way
What you need is a unique gift that will woo your woman this Valentine’s Day and that doesn’t have to cost the world. If you are on a tight budget you could seduce your partner with the Essential Romance Kit ($39.00). This kit is best used to provide an experience, rather than being wrapped up as a gift. First, create an atmosphere in the bathroom with the candles and run a romantic bath, adding the rose scented bubble bath. Once you’re ready to move to dry land, guide your partner into the bedroom where you have sprinkled the silk rose petals in a heart shape on the bed. Lay her down and gently massage her with the warming oil. What’s in it for you? Well after you’ve pampered her in this way she is going to want to show you how much she loves you in return!

Mutually Beneficial
If you are concerned that all of the bathing and massaging will result in your partner being sent to the land of nod rather than into your arms, you could go for a gift that is more likely to have the desired result - Rockin Rabbit ($65.95). This couple’s cock ring is designed to fit snuggly at the base of your penis (helping to maintain a stronger erection). One or both of the vibrating bullets can then be added to either end of the rabbit for clitoral, anal or testicular stimulation. Each bullet is individually controlled – so you and your partner are in charge of your own pleasure – or each other’s. However you use it, this toy will certainly bring passion to your Valentine’s night.

Good Vibrations
If you don’t want to seem like you are buying a gift for your own enjoyment, why not treat your partner to a toy that is solely intended to pleasure her. Lelo Elise ($289.00) is a top of the range vibrator that is designed to fit the contours of a woman’s body. It’s got five different vibration modes and creates incredible G-spot, clitoral or all-over body sensations. Give this toy as a gift and then take control of her pleasure or sit back and enjoy the show.

I’m not suggesting that these ideas are suitable Valentines gifts for all women. Some ladies won’t be comfortable receiving something of a sexual nature on February 14th. But you know your partner well enough to be sure if she’ll like these sexy valentines’ gifts.