Relationship Advice

Obsession: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

01.09 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

Did the love of your life stop caring? Did you think you had a romance that would last forever? Or… did you always have a little nagging feeling that she never cared as much as you did? If you’ve ever been... More about Obsession: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You
Do you Need Quality Time With Your Lover?

25.08 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

Do you and your lover need more time for romance? Do you often talk about spending “quality time” together? Most of us have heard or used that term often enough. It was coined in the 70s, originally describing the time that... More about Do you Need Quality Time With Your Lover?
Are You…Crazy In Love?

18.08 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

Dear Tonja, I have met someone and we are both so crazy about each other that we’re… well… we’re crazy! Neither of us can think straight and I know this sounds NUTS but we want to become not only exclusive, but make... More about Are You…Crazy In Love?
Talking up the good stuff

11.08 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

When someone compliments you, is your first thought, "What do they want?" More about Talking up the good stuff
Breaking Up – Late In Life

04.08 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

My email box has been full of questions from readers about what causes a couple to break up after decades together. Why? The Al and Tipper Gore were a high profile couple with a marriage on public display. Celebrities always get... More about Breaking Up – Late In Life
Getting It Right With The One You Love

28.07 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

Are you in love? Are you considering marriage to this person? Do you hesitate because you want to make sure that you get it right? Statistics show that many people today delay getting married until they are older. The reasons for this... More about Getting It Right With The One You Love
Learning To Trust Again – After You’ve Been Dumped

21.07 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

One of the first questions that a newly unattached guy might ask is: “Once you’ve been dumped, how do you learn to trust again? More about Learning To Trust Again – After You’ve Been Dumped
Are You Being Bossed Around?

14.07 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

Hi Tonja, More about Are You Being Bossed Around?
Doing Hard Time: Love on the Rocks

07.07 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

Lately, I have had some clients doing hard time. They are unhappy with their lives the way they are and can’t understand how they let them get so bad. Their romance has become an unsolvable problem. More about Doing Hard Time: Love on the Rocks
Are you guys ready for a relationship?

30.06 / Love & Lust / Relationship Advice

Many of us want to be in a great relationship and in my line of work I come across both men and women who yearn for this. However, there is often a gap between wanting to be in a great relationship... More about Are you guys ready for a relationship?